Military Life

Making Peace with the Nomadic Nature of Military Families

As a recent college graduate and brand-new Navy wife, moving in to base housing was like a dream come true. We had it made in our freshly renovated 2-bedroom duplex with linoleum floors throughout. My college friends were mostly living in apartments or houses with ever-changing roommate situations and I was a married woman with…

5 Excuses Not to Exercise…and Crushing Them

Running, swimming, kickboxing, CrossFit, yoga, circuit-training, tennis, Curves, Pilates, soccer. You name it, I’ve been committed to it. For a season. Or a month. Or a week. I enjoy being active and moving my body but then I had 3 kids and between childcare and military moves, daily exercise fell further down my list of…

Homeschool vs Public School: Education Options for the Military Child

Military moving season brings a host of decisions to be made, including whether to live on-base or off and if you have kids, whether to enroll them in public school, private school or homeschool. There is no right or wrong way to educate your children, pros and cons exist with all choices, but before making…

Deployment Series: I Love Technology

No, I’m not talking about the song from Kip and Lafawnduh’s wedding at the end of Napoleon Dynamite, I’m talking about the miracle of communication through technology during military deployments in this second installment of the monthly Deployment Series. If you missed the series intro, check it out here. Oh yeah, military spouses LOVE us…

5 Reasons to Form a Fantasy Football League Today – Don’t Miss Out!

MilSpouses, listen up: I know you don’t want to think about fall yet. I know it’s still 80 degrees out. But I also don’t want you to miss out on what could be your best addition to fall since Starbucks debuted the #PSL. So, while we have a few lazy days of summer left, it’s…

THAT Military Spouse: A Hermit Wife’s Rebuttal

The other day, I stumbled on a hilariously accurate post by JD Collins on her site, A Semi-Delicate Balance: Don’t Be THAT Military Spouse: 7 Kinds of Toxic Spouses to Avoid. It’s a few years old, but timeless, in my opinion. Reading through the list, I found myself nodding along, agreeing with every one of…

To the Military Spouse Who Feels Clueless

Remember the Friends episode where Joey pretends like he understands what everyone else is talking about, but really, he doesn’t have a clue? The one where he buys a set of encyclopedias so he can sound smart and fit in with his more intelligent buds? Have you ever felt like that?   Years ago, in…

Recently PCS’d to Camp Pendleton? 5 Things To Do Right Now!

Did you just hit the military jackpot and receive orders to sunny North County San Diego? Or maybe you aren’t jumping for joy because you’ve heard housing and cost of living is astronomical in that area? Whether you can’t wait to live in flip-flops for 3 years or are nervous about the strain on your…