marriage

4 Resources for Connection in Military Marriages

I don’t have to tell military spouses how hard it can be sometimes to connect with their service member. When is the last time you had a date night? Long, unpredictable hours at work can wear on even the most committed couple. It’s almost Valentine’s Day, and whether your love is going strong or could…

Committing to Fitness Goals: My Honolulu Marathon Story

Have you ever accomplished something so monumental that all the hard work it took to get there seemed worth it? I took a personality quiz the other day, sort of like “which Disney Princess are you”, except actually legit. It turns out, I’m what you call, an “obliger.” Just another way of saying “people pleaser,”…

A Thanksgiving Feast for Twelve…or Two

The submarine had been out to sea for about four weeks and was due to return my husband to me just before Thanksgiving. This particular day was extra special to us because he had proposed to me on Thanksgiving two years prior, and we were separated by deployment on turkey day during our first year…

A Vacation From Our Vacation: A Palm Desert Re-Cap

It’s no secret that we live our everyday lives in sunny San Diego, a vacation destination by all accounts. But, no matter where you call home, a change of scenery once in a while from where you work and do laundry is a must. Even when we were stationed at Pearl Harbor, we island-hopped to…

Date Night: A Moving Target

As a teenager, I used to babysit for a couple who went on regular “date nights”. I imagined, as I got older, that I would also carve out that special weekly Saturday night with my future husband. And then I married a submariner. Where the only schedule is that there is no schedule. Ok. I…